The Carpenter Krew

Read at your own Discretion!

2009-07-16T09:23:00.000-07:00

I have actually hesitated quite a bit about blogging about this, BUT, my purpose in blogging is to create some sort of trail of memories for our family. READ AT YOUR OWN DISCRETION!

So, here it goes...Potty Training...two most under rated words in the English dictionary (for us anyway). Now, don't get me wrong, Hayden has really done really well with potty training and it has been rather simple to train him. I credit my Mama for getting him "over the hump" so to speak...ever since he has been back from her house, he rarely ever has an accident. Anyway, back to the point... As I said, he has been easy but here are some of our challenges: he thoroughly enjoys pee peeing on things (tires, toys, our furniture!, bugs, our dog!, you name it and I can bet you it has been peed on at least once) His favorite thing to do is "to make mud" outside of course...I am not sure how we will break him of this habit or if we ever will for that matter...and the make mud term--his own little phrase that he coined all on his own. So now goes the poo...he makes families in the potty (don't know where this came from!) or sometimes he will choose to make snakes, which I guess makes a little more sense...the worst and most disgusting thing he likes to do is poo in his pants and pull it out and play with it. He brought me a hand full the other day and said "look mommy, its mud, stinky mud, shooowhew!" Don't worry we sanitized and washed and washed and sanitized...so there you go a memory for my dear Hayden to read someday when he is older.

Visit from Nanny!

2009-07-15T14:55:00.000-07:00

During Hayden's annual trip to my Mama's house (blogging to come on his visit)- Hayden was able to get an unexpected visitor! His NANNY! My grandmother, who lives in Huntsville, AL. She was passing through and heard little man was in town and stopped in to see his cute face! She said he told her he wanted to come to Alabama to stay with her soon!

4th of July with GramC & Pops

2009-07-15T14:34:00.000-07:00

The 4th of July Joey's parents do a traditional get-together at their lakehouse...we had a grand time this year! Hayden & Rylan (our cousin) & all their new friends had such a good time playing in the sand at the little beach behind the house and splashing around in the water!!

Hayden enjoyed playing with his GramC & Pops...he even got to drive Pops boat!! We drove through the lake and looked at all the boats decorated-Hayden's favorite was the pirate boat, everytime we passed he said ARRRR! Pirate! Ha!

The kids had a great time - they literally konked out before we were even out of the driveway. Joey and I definately got a taste of what it would be like with twins and WHEW! I have much sympathy!

Just the Two of Us!

2009-07-01T19:37:00.000-07:00

Hayden has been with my family in Corinth for an entire week! We miss our little angel so much but I have to admit its been fun to be able to be a couple again. Friday night, we went to "The Hat" for supper and then to see Hangover at the theater. It was the funniest movie we have seen in a while and completely inappropriate! Saturday we spent the day at my cousins pool---WoW! Can you say relaxation?! I haven't had that much quiet time in a long time. After absorbing way too many rays we came home to get ready for our big date! We went to Atlantica Grill which is supposed to be the No 1 restaurant in Mississippi. I wouldn't go that far by any means...but it was fun. Afterwards, we went by the hotel so I could show off our $6mil renovation...which is absolutely AMAZING and really is something to see! Later we went to our local hangout-The Bulldog had a couple drinks then came home and went to bed. And Sunday, we spent the day cleaning house and just relaxing!

I went for a mani/pedi yesterday and I am so happy to finally find someone good! You know how it is to move to a new city?? It takes dag-gum for-ever to find someone good to do your hair and nails! And I'll be darned if they aren't at the same place?? Rumors Hair Salon is the best kept secret in Brandon!! Melissa has been doing my hair for about two years now--also does Hayden & Joey's hair. She is the one who helps me keep Hayden's hair long! She simply tells Joey she refuses to cut it any shorter! Ha. I love it. She has become a friend and knows more about my family than most actually...well, long story short she talked Joey into getting me a mani/pedi...I went last night and absolutely love Beth Bates! She is great!

We will see Hayden Friday and can't wait! He has had LOTS of fun with his MiMi, PawPaw, NiNi, Jon & Muhyers and the rest of the family...He has told me a few times that he is now MiMi's baby! I love to see them have so much fun with him...so rewarding to be a grandparent I am sure but it sure is wonderful to sit back and watch grandparents and your child interact. Just amazing.

Lets Play Catch Up!

2009-06-15T20:27:00.000-07:00

Where to start, Where to start...It has been a while since I "blogged". I allowed all of you to get out of touch with the Carpenter Krew! We have been very busy...we are well into toddler world. This is definitely adventurous and very memorable and I should blog everyday but where does the time go in a day, huh?

While pregnant, I prayed for yes, a healthy baby but I also prayed for God to give us a child that would have the ability to overcome any challenge he may be faced with during life...We have been blessed. He has yet to find that challenge he cannot meet! I feel so blessed! However, I didn't realize while praying that with that child would come more challenges for me and Hayden's daddy to overcome. He is extremely outgoing, loves to explore, test, friendly, and smart! Let me put this in perspective for you...its not out of the ordinary for Hayden to empty an entire box of Cheez-Its into the washer (with white clothes) and come tell me "Mommy, crackers taken a bath...they all kin [aka clean]! -or- say Mommy, con see, I color A & B & pity pictirs" this would be when he made a masterpiece of my couch--thankfully, he chose chalk! -or- filling the toilet with various and sundry items or emptying the water out of the toilet into the floor...Whew! I need to post stuff like this daily!
Hayden's partner in crime, Ally Claire! They say they are going to marry eachother one day...oh me, what these two will get into during teenage years!

Hayden moved up to the older two's at school **sniff, sniff** to Ms. Lyn's class. I have to say she is my favorite...as they all are though... We are potty training and I have to say, he is doing excellent! Our only obstacle is the fact of how he goes potty... He will go potty and stay dry as long as he gets to "make mud" outside! He came up with that all on his own!! When he has to potty-- he says, "mommy/daddy, I go make MUD!" or he will choose to go peepee in other interesting places--things like Daddy's tires or the typical, a tree or bush. So, I am not sure how we will convince him that we don't announce the fact we gotta go make mud to everyone. Right now, its just cute to everyone...

Not as interesting with Joey and I, we are just growing wiser everyday and thankful to be so blessed! We continue to work hard--both still enjoying work. However, counting down the days until vacation! We will celebrate our 4 year anniversary the 25th of this month. Its hard to believe the time has slipped so fast!

Prada has adapted really well...She is a sweet dog and tolerates a lot from Hayden. He rides her like a horse, pulls her ears, and showers her with plenty of hugs & kisses. Allie spends most of her time hiding behind my clothes in the closet or up high where Hayden can't reach her... Ha!

I will try to update more frequent...I will leave you with the Carpenter Krew's nightly routine...I will read the same book to you one, two or even three times; sing Itsy Bitsy Spider, Twinkle,Twinkle, & my special little song for Hayden over and over again; finally we will say our prayers and God Bless Mommy, Daddy, Prada, Choo Choo Trains, toys, MiMi, PawPaw, Paps, Unkie T, Ta Ta, Mattie France, Blake, Brent, Muhyers, Libby, Sampson, Scratch, Ally Claire, Mindy, friends, etc...we go on & on & on naming literally everything we associate with daily. Ha!

Boys, Toys and Lots of Fun!

2009-02-16T08:58:00.000-08:00

Boys will be boys, right? Well, it all started when Joey and I were in Target right after Christmas. We were walking through the boys section and saw --wait for it, wait for it---grown men's footie pajamas! Yes! We couldn't believe it either. So, we bought them and used them as a prank for the rest of the weekend. It was so funny...all the boys bought them and used them as a party prank at my cousin Brent's 40th birthday party!! Joey's had dinosaurs, and the others were all-star and rockets and they ALL glowed in the dark! How funny is that?!?!

Brent had his 40th birthday party...and we (parents who don't get out much which was very obvious to way too many people) had lots of fun! We danced, enjoyed some adult beverages, caught up with people we haven't seen in a while, and made some new, not so welcoming friends...wink...wink :-0 Needless to say, it will be a very memorable night. The Powell's are known for creating memorable moments and this one won't be forgotten...for sure!

For 2009 Valentine's Day, we decided to splurg a little...Joey has always wanted a four wheeler and we brought home a 2008 Honda Foreman complete with mud grip tires and rims. I wasn't completely in agreement with the tires and rims but Joey wasn't leaving the store without them. It is pretty! And Hayden loves it. He calls it his "4wheeler car". And for my Valentine's Day present...something I have always needed (not wanted) is some help in the house! Ms. Virginia starts this week with helping me keep the house clean which we all know is a chore with 2 boys and a dog!

And I will leave you with updates from our sweet baby...Hayden visited his Mimi and PawPaw/Pepop (he calls him both, in the same sentence) this past week. This was so much fun for him...and a break for Mama and Daddy.

Our lil man on Holly Bush Road

2009-02-04T07:40:00.000-08:00

As Hayden and I leave the house in a rush every morning at 7 a.m. we turn out onto Holly Bush Road which is a main road leading to the highway. Every morning, we have this tall, lanky colored gentleman who is apparently retired greeting us and every other car with a big bright smile and warm wave. And me and Hayden yell to him "Hey, lil man!" and give him a big wave and smile at him back. (don't ask me why we call him lil man when he is tall and lanky-that is just what we started calling him because we don't know his name) He walks down the road with a cane all bundled up in his coveralls to make my and many other people's day! Isn't that just awesome??!! This man's sole purpose to walk down to the end of the road to wave at all the cars! If it is raining, he isn't out and Hayden will even ask "where little man go?"I have often wanted to take him something as a thank you for making me smile each morning because it just makes my day to see him. But I find myself wondering what such a happy man that starts his day by making someone elses day possibly need...probably not a darn thing...he is just happy to be here living his life despite all the bad things that our country is going through, all the lost jobs, lost homes, and anything else that any individual faces. What an inspiration, huh??!!
We should all be like that "little man" and just be thankful for what we do have...not what we don't have or may possibly loose. Be happy and just make the best of everything as we weather the storm. It will get better...we just have to be positive and make the best of what we do have... Just thought I would share my daily inspiration that I have the wonderful opportunity to experience every day!
So, today just smile and greet who you pass by...it will make their day and yours.

Updates...

2009-02-03T09:28:00.000-08:00

I know I have been a slacker at blogging lately...I am a slacker in all extracurricular activities for the moment. It seems as if there isn't enough time in the day...doesn't it? I rarely have time to do anything these days. And what do we do?? Add another family member...Meet Prada!

Isn't she beautiful? We rescued Prada from the Animal Rescue League last week. She was with a family that didn't have enough money to care for her and probably enough time as that breed dog requires lots of attention. So far, Prada has adapted really well to our lifestyle. Except we will have to work on her traveling...she gets really nervous in a vehicle.

We did manage to have time for a night for us...a date night? Well sorta...I had to attend a black tie event for work. The Ridgeland Chamber of Commerce annual awards night. It was fun getting all dressed up for a change.

Speaking of work...as you know, Joey passed his first round of tests for the PLS. The board called him the other day and told him they were going to allow him to bypass two years experience for the next test. So thats pretty exciting, huh? So that means he will take his next and final test Spring of 2010! Yay! And as for me...I still really enjoy my new job. It is a lot! But I like it!

And as for our sweet Hayden...well, we are well into our two's. He can be a bit challenging at times but each moment of fun makes it all worth it. Let's see...here are some really cute sayings that we hear often.

MY do it! and MY fix it! Hayden is very independent and wants to do everything all on his own.

broke it up! broke it up! (when something tears up/breaks)

I tarred! (tired) He says this to everything he doesn't want to do! Taking a bath, cleaning up toys, going to bed, etc...

you know how we all check for a dirty diaper? well, Hayden does this to me and says, "SHEW WEE MOMMY! Thats nasty! Nasty! SHEW WEE!" It is too funny!

Hayden loves his TaTa! So much that it has become somewhat of a challenge to get him to go to school. He cries and gets mad and says " No school Mommy! No friends! Go see TATA!" Its cute!
"I got Pissy tails" (I got Veggie Tails) This is so funny and we shouldn't laugh but it is really funny!!
"Uh Oh's Tail!"...this came from when he stayed the week with my Mama and Chuck, he would do something on purpose but say "uh oh" and my Mama would reply "uh oh's tail" and now he says it!
Hold You!...when he wants you to carry him

I know there are lots more and I will add to it for memory sake. But as for now I will leave you with this image.

A whirlwind of a month!

2009-01-02T19:13:00.000-08:00

I am a little behind on "blogging" but December was a whirlwind! Let see I will start at the beginning...I left my job at The Waterford after a long stretch of four years on December 12th. I was really nervous to make a change because I have always enjoyed what I did but felt that I needed more of a challenge. I started as Director of Sales at Cabot Lodge Jackson North on December 15th and absolutely LOVE it. It was a great move and at a good time. We are actually re-launching the hotel as a brand new hotel around March or April...so that will be an exciting time to be there but lots of work!! But it will be worth it...

The day before I started work on December 14th was probably one of the hardest days I have seen in a very, very long time. We had to put our sweet dog to rest. It turned out that she had either a stroke or aneurysm...so at least she wasn't poisoned like we first thought. We still get very upset about her...I cried yesterday after I picked her her pillow she slept on in the living room. It's horrible! However, after thinking long and hard, we have decided to get another Weimaraner and have been researching for the best breeder. We found a lady we really like down in Bay St. Louis and she is looking to breed her baby within the next month...so hopefully we will have a baby weim in early spring. We have been really careful trying to find a breeder this time because naturally we want a healthy dog that has strong, positive genetics. I will keep you posted on that as the time comes!

Next is Christmas...which was so much fun this year! First was Christmas in Corinth then here in Jackson. Hayden really loved it! Joey, Hayden and I spent Christmas Eve making homemade candy, sausage balls, pigs n blankets, decorated cookies for Santa Claus...you name it we had it! It was funny when we got done because...we made ALL THIS STUFF and it was just us. Ha! Oh well, it was really fun and we made lots of memories! Thankfully, none went to waste...my family all came over our house on Christmas Day and we snacked on it til it was gone.

So much fun to stomp in the MUD!!!
Christmas with TaTa, Brent, Blake & Mattie Frances...we tried to get a group pic but a pic with Hayden is virtually impossible these days. So we take what we can get!
And finally at then end of Christmas weekend...This was Hayden's way to hold Mia & PePop up...he was making her sit and block the door! He did NOT want them to leave...threw a fit! Next time, Mia & Pepop will have to just take him with them! This was the first time he really put it together that they were "leaving" and it wasn't good!! So sad! He would rather be with his grandparents...do you blame him? He is so catered to when they are around!! Its sickening! He does NO wrong!

Sweet Marley

2008-12-15T19:08:00.000-08:00

I didn't know whether to erase our "one heck of a day" post or leave it...It seems that I spoke a little too soon. As you know, Marley was apparently poisoned and we actually thought she had made it through. Saturday night she was doing great...back to ole Marley. She was doing commands, jumping around, eating & drinking. However, Sunday morning around 5 a.m. she took a drastic change for the worse. Marley went into a seizure and wasn't able to come out. Joey and Brent (my cousin) took her to the emergency vet and they injected valium five times to try to bring her out of the seizure. It would calm her for about 10-20 sec and they would start again. Her temperature was 110 and had been for probably a while. We had to make the decision to put her at peace. The absolute hardest thing...its terrible. She was Hayden's best friend, a second child to us and a family member to not only us but to our family and friends. Its so hard to imagine how such a healthy dog could go that fast. I just want to pinch myself to wake up from this bad dream. Its devistating. Our cat, Allie, is apparently grieving. She hasn't left Marley's bed since yesterday and has never to my knowledge even step foot on her bed beforehand.
Rest In Peace our sweet Marley girl.

One heck of a day!

2008-12-13T10:26:00.000-08:00

Our Friday, December 12th began at about 3:30 a.m. with Marley (our first born-5 year old weimaraner) very, very sick. She couldn't walk, sit up, see and was non-responsive. We continued to watch her until the vet opened at 9 a.m. Joey gracefully carried Marley into the vet and put her on the table. The doctor came in and his first words were, I am really worried about your dog. We didn't know what was wrong. She is primarily an inside dog and we keep all hazardous stuff locked or up high because of Hayden. The vet kept her and began running test. He called and updated us all throughout the day. He talked to vets and internal medicinist all over the US and no one had any idea what was wrong. But he treated her as if she was poisoned. He called and one point and said he had done all he could do...it didn't look like she would make it. A neurologist at Miss State wanted her sent to him so he could study on her...they didn't know what was wrong because all the test were coming back healthy. He kept her over night and saw a gradual improvement. He re-ran all the test and finally concluded that she, at some point, ingested marijuana, xanax or valium. All we can figure is that someone threw a stash over the fence and she ate it. Who knows?? But she is pretty much back to her old self...still a little groggy. But will sleep it off. Thank you Jesus and Dr. May for saving our baby dog! We are so blessed.

So anyway, we came home around lunch to check the house again to try to figure out if she had eaten some poison. During this time, I check the mail. I said, "Oh my gosh, Joey, here is THE letter from MS Board of Licensure for Engineers & Surveyors. Do you want to open it?" This could lead to an extremely bad day or turn it around to at least one positive for the day. "He took it in and read it alone. He came running to me and Hayden jumping up and down, yelling I PASSED! I PASSED! We hugged and congratulated him! We (all of those that know what dedication he had for this test) are SO EXTREMELY PROUD! People that don't know the field of work may not understand the accomplishment...but I will say this, there is an 18% pass rate. Hence, there are so very few in MS these days in the field b/c the test in the recent years has gotten so ridiculously hard. Joey started preparing for this test in July. Every single night he went off to the guest room for his 3 hour study session! The test was in late October. A lot of time and dedication for this test. So he is now, Joseph R. Carpenter, S.I. and has a license number! How awesome! Just talking about "our Friday" gives me chills...I feel so thankful.
Thank you Lord for continuing to watch over us and guide us with your grace through each moment and blessing us with your presence & with such wonderful friends, family, love, and accomplishments.

Let It Snow! Let It Snow! Let It Snow!

2008-12-11T11:02:00.000-08:00

So its beginning to look a lot like Christmas in Jackson, Miss! Mindy told me Monday that it was supposed to snow today...and honestly I thought she was looking at the wrong cities forecast. I should have known because she is an avid weather watcher. Its her hobby. Seriously! Ha, don't kill me Mindy! I love you! It started sleeting this morning and hasn't slowed up all day. Here are some pictures. Hayden is asleep (do you blame him?), so he hasn't played in it yet.

My Soul Sisters!

2008-12-09T07:22:00.000-08:00

If any of you know me very well, you have heard me talk about my girls. We are a group of about 8 girls that started out friends in college. We have been so close throughout the years and have remained close depite the life happenings that have taken us apart...some moved away for jobs, more college, marriage, children, etc... Yesterday, one of our girls (Meah) was in town. She just finished her thesis at Belmont University in Nashville and has been in the occupational therapy program. She is about to head off to Phoenix, AZ to do her residency at the Mayo Clinic. What an exciting opportunity she has!!! Anyway, I was able to spend the day with her and Melanie (another one of our group). We had so much fun talking about all the great memories we made in college and then just talking about what we are doing now. It is so amazing to me how we can be apart for so long then just pick up right where we left off. And even more amazing how we can remain so close yet be so caught up in our today's life. Have you ever seen the movie "Sisterhood of the traveling pants"? That is us...except we don't mail a pair of jeans all over the world. Last night, we all got together for dinner...lawdy, if there was a fly on the wall...we talked about the craziest, most embarrassing, funniest things, just like we did way back when and at one point I just sat and took it all in and realized how blessed I was to have that and how thankful we must be for God giving us to eachother. I know, I know, it is strange to hear this sappy stuff coming out of my mouth! But I have learned that you better be thankful for what you have and not take advantage of one single person or thing that is given to you. Be thankful for those who love you... Anyway, I got a little sappy last night after leaving you girls. Thank you again for the memories...one more time. I love you ole fools!

Santa Claus is coming to town!

2008-12-08T07:12:00.000-08:00

Here is a typical morning at the Carpenter Krew house. We were getting ready for church and I admit when I am busy I really don't keep an eye on Hayden like I should...as long as he is quite and occupied which often leads to some sort of disaster...this morning I caught him pouring an entire bottle of bubbles in my boot! He, of course, thought it was so funny. He is so comical...he is all the time into something!

I decided to try to get some pictures of him since he was dressed oh so cute...minus the sore on his nose which is from where he pulled the stocking from the mantle and it the weight of which was holding the stocking on the mantle came crashing down on my baby boy's face! Anyway, here are some of the cute pics I was able to capture.

Now he is tired of pictures...he is hiding from me!

Christmas will be fun this year! He is kinda figured out the whole Santa Claus thing. Everytime he sees him he yells really loud...P Paus, Mommy, P Paus! He knows he brings "prizes" (that is what he calls them) but not sure about that strange jolly fellow coming into his house! When I ask if he want Santa Clause to come to his house, he says, No, No Mommy! We have the "Elf on the Shelf" and we named ours Mr. Jingles. In case your not familiar...the elf comes from the north pole day after thanksgiving and lands some where in the house. He watches you to see if your naughty or nice and then at night flys back to the north pole to report to Santa Claus. The next morning he is landed somewhere different in the house. He doesn't speak only listens and you can't touch him because then he would loose his Christmas magic. It is so cute!

Glimpse of Hayden

2008-11-25T18:23:00.000-08:00

Here is a glimpse of what our sweet Hayden is like...as I said he just turned two and while I don't want to preface this blog he has entered his terrible twos...I will just say he is DEFINATELY full of life.

Hayden is a very happy child and loves having fun. We do feel so blessed to have a child who is so extroverted!

What he loves:

His "pappi" (pacifier) I know, I know its ruining his teeth but he really loves it! He carries not one but two or three sometimes four pappies everywhere.

His bank banks...he has numerous minky dot blankets that he carries most everywhere and must sleep with

Chasing and torturing the puppy dog & meow (that is what he calls all cats)

Tractors...the gummy candy...he totally loses it. We have to keep it hid in the pantry or he will eat the entire box! However it is a great bargaining tool!

CHOO CHOO!! tains and he says it just like that! He is goes nuts over trains! Just this morning he woke me up wanting to watch choo choo at 4:45 a.m.!

Feetball! and really any sport! But seems to have a great love for feetball and yes I did say "feet" and bessball!

Cowboy Hats! and boots! He loves to prance around the house wearing his hat.

The Wiggles!! This child loves to interact with Wiggles! And I have to admit, it is too cute to watch him sing and dance with them.

Dancing--he likes to shake it whenever any music is on and sometimes he makes his own music.

TRACTORS! Yes the real thing...but he does love the gummie candy too!

the outdoors

Ally Claire

Exerting his independence we hear "neo" frequently. He rules the roost...our excuse is we have to allow him to express himself.

Big trucks

He loves his Mimi & Bibby (aka Libby my mothers min dachshund-he sees them as one person I think), Papoo, Paps--they do no wrong! And he does no wrong in their eyes either!

He loves his NiNi (my sister Sydney), TaTa (my cousin Tasha), Muhyers (my grandmother) and all of his other family, cousins and friends!

having his Daddy throw him high in the air...I have to go to another room every time...it scares me to death but Hayden absolutely LOVES it!
Cheese. It is where he gets 90% of his nutrition and the other 5% on chicken nuggets & the other 5% is, you guessed it, tractor gummies
Bubbles (aka grapes) and Dogs (aka hot dogs)!

Hayden is 2!

2008-11-25T18:16:00.000-08:00

Hayden turned 2 on November 14th! Here is a picture from his birthday party...he loves pizzzA! So naturally this was the main course at his party.

We are the Carpenter Krew!

2008-11-25T11:36:00.000-08:00

So, this is our first attempt at "blogging"--a whole new world for us! I hope this will be a great way to capture memories for our family that consists of me, my hubby, Joey, our precious 2 year old boy, Hayden (a.k.a. the love of our life), and our dog, Marley and cat, Allie. Wow! We are blessed! Just listing our family makes me thankful! After I get the hang of this I will post some pictures. Hopefully this will be a way for family and friends to stay in touch.